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Biographical description many pastors write for the web site of their church: “Married to the most beautiful woman in the world.”

“We have the best youth pastor in the country.”

“He’s the smartest guy in every room…”

I often joke that the most beautiful woman in the world must be getting very tired.  How would you like to be the wife to thousands of pastors?

The line about the youth pastor came out of the mouth of a seasoned pastor.  He clearly wanted us to know how special our youth pastor was.  I remember thinking that our senior pastor could not possibly know every youth pastor in the country to make such an assessment.  Even if that were possible, it would mean our senior pastor would be God, for only God can determine who is really best, or more importantly, faithful.  

The last quote is a direct quote from the address of an evangelical leader about another evangelical leader.  Both guys certainly have much to offer, but it shows how even good people can get caught up in hyperbole.

When I was doing radio, one of my most faithful listeners told me that I “was the smartest guy on radio.”  I told him that was depressing to hear.  Was the bar really that low?  A bit more seriously, I gently asked him if he had listened to every single show on American radio.  He was simply trying to encourage me, but again it demonstrates how much we Americans love superlatives.  “Good, better, best.  Never let it rest.  Till your good is better, and your better is best.” 

There is nothing wrong of course with shooting to do excellent work.  I attempt to do so myself.  But the amount of cheerleading among Americans, including us evangelicals, needs to be seriously monitored.

Evangelicals aren’t the only ones doing this sort of thing.  Sure, many of us continue to say D. Martyn Lloyd-Jones was the “greatest preacher of the twentieth-century,” but Baylor University got in the act when it posted its “12 Most Effective Preachers.”

We Americans love this stuff.  Who are the people that really matter?  Perhaps we know one of them.   Maybe if we follow them on Twitter they will return the favor.  Spoiler alert: D. Martyn Lloyd-Jones does not have a Twitter account.

Not only do those who supposedly matter get our attention, but big things do as well.  Big Christian conferences are a cottage industry in America.  Good things surely happen at such events.  I’ve attended and spoken at some.  However, are we enamored, even being seduced by these big events?  Are we in danger of trumpeting the impressive numbers as a barometer for their legitimacy?  It’s hard to even entertain such questions, especially when lots of money and jobs are tied up with them.

About a year ago I was talking with a dear friend who does men’s ministry in Canada.  He is Canadian, but has spent quite a bit of time in the US.  As we talked about various ways to minister to men, he mentioned that Canadians are suspicious of big things.  It is why Promise Keepers was not a big deal in Canada, but was the thing for many years here in the States.  Promise Keepers has now gone the way of the Dodo bird, but other big things are amply filling the vacuum that was temporarily left.

Perhaps a restaurant chain can help us gain a better perspective.  Here in Austin we have several places which serve barbecue.  One in particular stands out for its tagline.  Rudy’s bills itself as “The worst barbecue in Texas.”  You can’t set the bar any lower than that.  Actually, the barbecue is quite good as the consistently brisk business attests.

Maybe Christians ought to consider a little less fanfare about how great their particular organization does things.  Triumphalism is endemic in American culture, but do Christians really need to go along with such silliness?

Years ago, I interviewed Cal Thomas on his important book, Blinded by Might: Can the Religious Right Save America?  Thomas co-authored the book with Ed Dobson.  Both authors served in positions of influence during the heyday of The Moral Majority.  When Jerry Falwell died, Cal Thomas wrote a moving obituary, but still was willing to say what needed to be said:

The movement [The Moral Majority] also had its downside, because it tended to detract from a Christian’s primary responsibility of telling people the “good news” that redemption comes only through Jesus Christ. At times, this central message seemed to be replaced by one suggesting that a shortcut to moral renewal might come through Washington and the Republican Party.

My only disappointment with Blinded by Might was that its message did not get out earlier.  Imagine if Thomas and Dobson instead of being vilified or marginalized for writing were honored by The Moral Majority for having the courage to speak truth to power.  Now ask yourself this diagnostic question: How many people do you know who have given a pointed critique to their own Christian organization and not suffered repercussions for doing so?

“Less gushing, more blushing” would furnish the kind of culture where people can appropriately raise concerns within their organizations without being labelled a troublemaker.  A sign of real health in any organization is where concerns, even pointed ones, can be openly discussed without any fear of reprisals. 



  1. Dave Post author

    Here is what my friend, Pastor Evan Hock just emailed me: “Lord, help me flush the gush, and rush to the blush!”

  2. Dave Post author

    Got this email from a dear friend who ministered with us at Stanford then spent many years in Europe:

    I think living in Europe and working with national staff broke us of this. Croatians hate to use superlatives and if you ask them a question like, “What is your favorite XXX?” or ” What is the best XXX?” they can’t answer the question. You have to couch in it comparative or relative terms, not superlative.

  3. Tom Morris

    Ok. I wanted to say that this is the best blog post ever written. But somehow, now, that seems inappropriate. Perhaps, I could say that its message is mightily needed. But I might just have to say that it’s a good one whose time has come, and that you did a fine job expressing it.

    Fun aside, I’m really glad you wrote this. It’s hard in a culture of hype to recommend or get positive attention for anything with out departing from the Aristotelian virtue of honesty and redefining the one we call magnificence. So thank you for an (shhhh: awesome) effective post.

  4. Paul Van Allen

    Dave, I hope to see more posts like this in the spaces evangelicals write and talk in. We see a lot about narcissistic pastors these days but what about the narcissistic churches and movements that can’t live without them? One alarm bell for me is when the word “exciting” is used too often in a church…sadly its more likely to be used in such churches to refer to the new fall line up of programs and preaching series rather than the hope of the resurrection. We share the latter with all the other churches in town and so its not something worth emphasizing (insert puke emoji).


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