God, What on Earth are You Doing?

DIVORCE IS A BAD MULTIPLIER

It is easy for couples going through a divorce to be so focused on their own hurts that they fail to realize the massive ripple effect on others: children, families on both sides, and friends.

I wonder if those contemplating divorce could actually see the entire crowd of people who will be forever affected whether this might help slow down the breaking up of couples.  Only God knows.  The reality however remains.  

Divorce does not just involve two people, but many other folks as well.

GHOST-WRITING: A COMMON (EVEN WITH CHRISTIANS), YET UNETHICAL PRACTICE

My introduction to ghost-writing came via a gifted friend from my days at Stanford.  She received her B.A. in classics from Stanford with distinction.  She is a gifted writer.  After college she went to work with a Christian ministry.  My wife and I were visiting with her one day when she read a letter from a well-known Christian leader.  I was a bit surprised by how well the letter was written and commenced to voice my astonishment.  My friend said, “Oh no, she did not write it.  I did.”  I was speechless…a rather uncommon occurrence for me!
After this, I started to hear more about ghost-writing.  There were all kinds of rationales given to the practice, but all struck me as ridiculous.  Who cares if everyone is doing it?  That is certainly not a compelling argument.  Who cares if both the ghost-writer and the more famous Christian are fine with it?  No argument of any worth there either.
My first opportunity to ghost-write came about ten years ago.  I turned down the offer even though the money was good.  In the depths of the recent recession when we almost lost our home, I said “yes” to ghost-writing two smaller pieces.  It was a weak moment to be sure, but inexcusable.  I will never do it again.
I have no problem with a famous Christian utilizing the skills of a more gifted writer as long as proper attribution is given.  Which means in many cases putting them on the cover as a co-author.  And how many follow that practice?  Very few, I’m afraid.
I talked with a journalist several years back who was working on a major book about ghost-writing among Christians.  He decided to scrap it because he felt it would be too much of a stumbling block for Christians to find out how many of their favorite writers are really not the guy or gal writing the book!

MEET MY FRIEND, PROFESSOR CAROL SWAIN

About five years ago, I spoke at Vanderbilt University.  I was invited by Professor Carol Swain. Carol’s story is truly amazing.  She dropped out of high school, got her GED along with a slew of other degrees, and ended up teaching at places like Princeton and now Vanderbilt.

Here is a six minute video on her incredible story:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OUl3ibKO38k

PAINTING WITH WORDS

I visited Martha’s Vineyard on two different occasions over the past couple of years.  The first time was to give a series of talks on early American history and the second was to interview Tony Horwitz, Pulitzer-prize winning author.

Another well-known Pulitzer winner, David McCullough, also lives on Martha’s Vineyard.  Tony drove us by McCullough’s house, but during my first visit I was able to walk around McCullough’s backyard and get to see his famous writing shed up close and personal.

Here is a wonderful series on how McCullough paints with words!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=q5b5eHDc5vs

http://http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fTD_0N6sIUw

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=S2D5EYS2C6Y

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TYsjuF-ienI

 

 

 

PREACHING TO YOURSELF

Tim Keller has much wisdom to offer.  Here he shares how he keeps his heart soft toward the Lord.

“I always pray in the morning, Lord make me happy enough in the grace of Jesus to avoid being proud, cold, scared, and hooked.”

  • Now, by proud I mean what you think, too self-congratulatory. And maybe disdainful of people who I don’t think have it together.
  • Cold means I’m just too absorbed in my concerns to really be compassionate and gracious and warm and joyful to the people around me.
  • Scared means I’m just obviously too anxious and worried.
  • Hooked means…when you’re overworked, it means for me…eating. Eating things I shouldn’t eat just because it’s a way of keeping my energy up, and also because it’s a way of rewarding myself. Or looking at women more than once.

DISCIPLESHIP AND DODO BIRDS

The Dodo, of course, is well known for two things: being ugly and being extinct.  Discipleship where you invest long-term in a few relationships seems to have gone the way of the Dodo.

On Scot McKnight’s blog, he posted a poll on what top ten things pastors like about their calling.  I list them here with the comment I posted over at Scot’s Jesus Creed:

  1. Seeing lives transformed.  
  2. Preaching. Frankly, I expected this response to be number one, but it was a distant second. Preaching is very important to these pastors, but transformed lives are the most important. Of course, some of them noted that preaching transforms lives.
  3. Personal evangelism. Though distant to number one, sharing the gospel one-on-one was a clear number three. Here is a fascinating facet of this study to me: Over 85 percent of the pastors named one of these first three as their response. The next eight were named by less than 15 percent of the pastors.
  4. The people/members.  
  5. Developing new relationships.  
  6. Ministering in the community.  
  7. Ministering to members.  
  8. Casting a vision.  
  9. Staff relationships.  
  10. Mentoring or discipling one-on-one.  (Study by Thom Rainer)

As a former full-time pastor and now itinerant, I find it disheartening (if this poll is any real indication) that discipleship is tenth and no comment made about that changing lives.

My own interaction with many pastors does reflect what the poll is saying. Few pastors seem interested in the non sexy work of long-term discipleship. Thankfully, I know some notable exceptions to what may be the general rule.